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About me

Enter the temple of Thee Demonatrix, with an open mind, open spirit, and a willingness to face the dark. 

I am your new religion; your femboi Daddy Domme and leather Dyke obsession. I am a sensual Demon, skilled at tapping into your deepest desires and releasing you from the shackles of shame. 


Let Me be your dark Priest. I speak the gospel of liberation and the power of self discipline.  As your Curvy King I will guide you on a journey of surrender through pain and pleasure at your pace. Allow me to introduce you to an elevated version of you. 


My name is Daddy Doyenne.  I am a 20+ year lifestyle kinkster, professional and lifestyle Dominatrix, and kink and BDSM educator. BDSM is not only a lifestyle, but an essential element of My being. I value the power exchange and consider it a sacred ritual of human energy exchange. You are not  Mine unless you are ready to integrate your shadows and sink deep into a journey of self discovery and liberation through surrender. 


My story is a rich tapestry of culture and experience. I was born in the Bronx, NY and raised in Antigua, WI, until the age of 10 when I moved to the US to live with my grandmother.  I was raised in a Matriarchal family, molded by My small tribe of strong women. 


My grandmother was a religious woman. Not cruel in her beliefs, but devoted. My grandmother's heart caused me to question religion and the people who believed in it, in comparison to her, at an early age. My curiosity is endless. I have found devils and hell on Earth as I have Heaven and Earthly angels, but My greatest lesson has been that angels and demons are of the same species.  


Let me deconstruct your delusions. That shame you carry does not belong to you.


I am neither man nor woman but  feminine and masculine of spirit at once. A genderfluid God. My pronouns are They/Them only, and the honorifics I consent to are strictly, Daddy, Mixtress, Goddexx, Sir or Master/Maitre. I do not take kindly to being misgendered, but still hold My identity as Mother and black woman, dear to My heart. 


I have many interests and offerings to share, both in person and virtually, although my preference is face to face. I am a classically trained Chef, foodie, and all around art f@g with a love for absorbing knowledge and indulging in adventure. 


I am a playful but strict Daddy Domme, a seductive gothic Mixtress, a nurturing but firm pet trainer, a Femboi findom brat, and above all else a genderfluid Deity,  worthy of worship, loyalty, support and devotion.  Treat yourself. I  have always had an interest in philosophy and religion, and I have never been afraid to peer into the dark. As a black Domme, I expect a certain level of social awareness in your approach. I am not here to be the object of your raceplay fantasy. You will respect me for who I am as an individual, while never attempting to erase the importance of my cultural identity.  


Before you approach, be certain of what you want from this exchange, and be prepared to prove if you are indeed worthy of my time and effort. 


See My Booking & Protocol page for further details.